LOVE CHANGES EVERYTHING
There are some changes made and some yet to be finalized. After much discussion, we decided to cater a transport for Adriana. At first I was quite concerned on how the situation will be when she’s on the bus. I’m not worried if she’s able to adapt because she wants to take the school van. I can be a paranoid mum who is afraid that her daughter might be bullied. Luckly her cousin, Amirah, is taking the same van as her so she can look out for her. Although the fee is considered costly for the short distance, we are doing this to lighten the grandfather’s daily duty.
Aqil has been sleeping on a mattress at his sister’s room all the while. Since my sister had donated the unutilized double deck bed, we had sort off converted the play room into the boys’ room. On the first night, he slept throughout with ease. He will automatically go to his room when he wants to sleep and has been sleeping alone since then.
Up next in line, will be sending Aqil to childcare center.We already survey and choose the venue and even called up the center for enquiries and booking. But the grandparents seemed to disagree and forbade us from sending him. Our intention is simple that is to make the situation trouble-free for them. Enrolling him at childcare center is still our option; all we need is to persuade them who feel sorry for the boy. Then it will saving up the hard cash for ‘bulk purchases’ for the house. To those who have seen and been to our house, you will get what I mean of ‘touch up’ the house.
People have been asking us on how we managed to bring all 4 kids on our own. We both will just smile and said just like that. We love to bring the 4 kids out together. We don’t want to impose others so we work together to handle them and make the outing enjoyable and fun. Even if we have errands to run, we will bring at least 2 kids with us. Be it if the man going for his haircut, soccer match, car wash or paying bills, he will bring the 2 elder kids along. They even followed for my threading session, shopping, marketing and jb trips. This is because we had experienced of taking the 4 of them by ourselves and it’s a demanding task. Therefore we will help out the partner or whoever is taking care of them.
On a side note, special events will commence on each of the upcoming months. September is Hari Raya; October is my last 20s' birthday; November is my daddy’s 70th birthday celebration; December is the girl’s family affair birthday celebration. January will commemorate New Year and February will be our 5 years anniversary! We will be busy with the brain storming!
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